This is the amazing story of our micro preemie, John Craig. He was born on November 30, 2005 at 24 weeks and 5 days gestation. He weighed 1 pound 8 ounces and was 12 inches long. John is a true miracle and an inspiration to all that meet him!
For I know the plans I have for you, declares the Lord, plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you a hope and a future.
Jeremiah 29.11

Monday, May 10, 2010

Top 20 Reasons Moms of Kids With Special Needs ROCK


I saw this on another blog and LOVED it!!!

1. Because we never thought that “doing it all” would mean doing this much. But we do it all, and then some.
2. Because we’ve discovered patience we never knew we had.
3. Because we are willing to do something 10 times, 100 times, 1,000 times if that’s what it takes for our kids to learn something new.
4. Because we have heard doctors tell us the worst, and we've refused to believe them. TAKE THAT, nay-saying doctors of the world.
5. Because we have bad days and breakdowns and bawl-fests, and then we pick ourselves up and keep right on going.
6. Because we gracefully handle the stares, the comments, the rude remarks. Well, mostly gracefully.
7. Because we manage to get ourselves together and get out the door looking pretty damn good. Heck, we even make sweatpants look good.
8. Because we are strong. Man, are we strong. Who knew we could be this strong?
9. Because we aren’t just moms, wives, cooks, cleaners, chauffeurs, women who work. We are moms, wives, cooks, cleaners, chauffeurs, women who work, physical therapists, speech therapists, occupational therapists, teachers, researchers, nurses, coaches, and cheerleaders. Whew.
10. Because we work overtime every single day.
11. Because we also worry overtime, but we work it through. Or we eat chocolate or Pirate's Booty or gourmet cheese, which aren't reimbursable by insurance as mental-health necessities but should be.
12. Because we are more selfless than other moms. Our kids need us more.
13. Because we give our kids with special needs endless love, and then we still have so much love left for our other kids, our husbands, our family. And our hairstylist, of course.
14. Because we inspire one another in this crazy blogosphere every single day.
15. Because we understand our kids better than anyone else—even if they can’t talk, even if they can’t gesture, even if they can't look us in the eye. We know. We just know.
16. Because we never stop pushing for our kids.
17. Because we never stop hoping for them, either.
18. Because just when it seems like things are going OK, they're suddenly not OK, but we deal. Somehow, we always deal, even when it seems like our heads or hearts might explode.
19. Because when we look at our kids we just see great kids. Not "kids with cerebral palsy/autism/Down syndrome/developmental delays/whatever label."
20. Because, well, you tell me.
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4 comments:

Anonymous said...

This "poem" is perfect for you Jill. You are such a wonderful mom, and it shows on those beautiful babies. You are an inspiration for so many.

Happy Mothers Day again. We love you.

Grammy and Papa
xoxoxoxo

Cindy said...

Can only reiterate Grammy's sentiments! We couldn't be any prouder of you, John, Jamie, Hope - the entire Birtch family. Happiness is indeed Homemade and you are a consummate chef!!!!!

Oodles of love,
Grams & Papa

Katie and Matt said...

Because you inspire me with your positive attitude. You inspire me with your belief and your unwillingness to accept anything less than for your little lovies...even if it means sacrificing, yet again, for yourself. And you inspire me to quit complainig when I have to put the girls shoes on again because they've taken them off on the 5 minute car ride. I've seen how long it takes to put John's shoes on and you better believe I quit whining about that one. :) Love you!

Sheri said...

Love it! Thanks!